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The Key to True Happiness - The Present World
October 7, 2024, 11:27 am

The Key to True Happiness

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  • Update Time : Wednesday, August 7, 2024
In the relentless pursuit of happiness, people often find themselves trapped in a paradox where the quest for joy becomes a source of distress.
A recent study published in the journal Emotion reveals that the fixation on achieving happiness can lead to negative emotions when expectations fall short, ultimately diminishing overall well-being.

Leading the research, Dr. Maria Jensen, a social psychologist and postdoctoral researcher at New York University, explains the phenomenon with a simple scenario: “Imagine someone attending a long-awaited concert. Midway through, they realize they’re not as euphoric as they anticipated. This realization could be seen as a normal experience, or it could be judged as a failure to achieve happiness.”

This judgmental approach, according to Dr. Jensen, is where the problem lies. “Consistently infusing potentially positive moments with negative judgments can accumulate, much like plaque in arteries, gradually undermining one’s mental health.”

Surprisingly, this self-sabotage of happiness is common. Dr. Jensen and her team analyzed data from mood, personality, well-being, and depression surveys, along with diary entries, of approximately 1,800 individuals over an 11-year period. They discovered that the problem is not the value people place on happiness, but the methods they use to pursue it.

“People can value happiness and either struggle or succeed in finding effective strategies to achieve it,” Dr. Jensen notes. The study shows that worrying about not being happy generates meta-emotions—feelings about one’s feelings—that are counterproductive.

“Take someone on a job interview,” Dr. Jensen suggests. “They hope to feel confident, but the initial interaction is awkward. Judging themselves for not feeling more at ease can create a spiral of anxiety. Accepting that such interactions have ups and downs can prevent this spiral, allowing for a more balanced emotional experience.”

The study found that individuals preoccupied with achieving and maintaining happiness reported more depressive symptoms, poorer well-being, and lower life satisfaction compared to those who held happiness as a goal without obsessing over it.

So, what is the secret to genuine happiness? Dr. Jensen advises taking the pressure off and avoiding constant self-assessment of one’s happiness. “Embrace the full range of your emotions,” she suggests. “Both positive and negative feelings are informative and provide insights into our mental state.”

Practicing mindfulness—being present and aware of one’s emotions—can also be beneficial. This approach helps in tuning into one’s feelings without the pressure of setting emotional goals, reducing the likelihood of damaging emotional experiences during the pursuit of happiness.

Furthermore, cognitive-behavioral strategies, such as reframing negative thoughts and focusing on the present, can foster a healthier relationship with one’s emotions. Instead of viewing moments of sadness or disappointment as failures, recognizing them as natural parts of life can promote greater emotional resilience.

For instance, consider Emily, a marketing executive who often finds herself stressed about not feeling as happy as her peers. By incorporating mindfulness practices and accepting her emotions as they come, Emily learns to navigate her emotional landscape more effectively. She no longer views occasional sadness as a setback but as a part of her overall emotional experience, leading to improved well-being and life satisfaction.

In conclusion, the pursuit of happiness should not become a source of stress. By embracing all emotions and practicing mindfulness, individuals can achieve a more balanced and fulfilling life. As Dr. Jensen’s research indicates, the key to true happiness lies not in constantly seeking joy, but in accepting and understanding the full spectrum of our emotional experiences.

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